LOVE IS ALL THAT MATTERS

Whenever I come across the word love either through a whisper or a form of appreciation, it sends a vibes which narrows down my spine. Twinkle! Twinkle! It rings!
I look at the person whom has just professed the word and it almost sound unbelievable. 

We all know what love is but understanding it's true meaning requires a divine wisdom. Ask me why? Have you ever wondered why we are all searching for one thing that makes it different and we would not stop until we get it?  Have you ever wondered  what the world had lost that brought about chaos, disorderliness and war?  Have you ever ask yourself,  what is most important to you? 

I did ask myself these questions and  I was marvelled at what turns out to be my answer. It is the most valuable, cheapest thing you could ever find but scarce and rare.  God recognises it, because it is the basis on which the world is built . Forget about numerous definitions that has been  ascribed to  the word. 

When you hear the word 'love', what is the first thing that comes to your mind?  That is how you define your love which will be the most important thing to you. 

 To some people :it is a mere feelings of emotion, sex, attraction,  while to others : it is for better for worse. But to few, it is an art of giving without expecting anything in return. 
The word love is easily used these days but mostly abused.  Someone said to me ' I love you' hoping to get a response but I said goodnight instead. My friend said to me that I am dumb because I refuse to reciprocate the utterance. Then,I ask 'why do I have to lie' ? She responded that it is a normal thing to say. "Love you, talk your own", while laughing hysterically. Why would I ever lie to someone about something that important, was my response. And she said, maybe important to you. Who cares if it's real or not but fortunately I do care. 

Do not get me wrong. I mean, this is a word that comes so easily to me judging by how intense I feel which with time  has become so difficult to use. Then I thought I have become emotionless. 

But, the day I realise that love is more than just an emotion or a mere say was the day I almost missed her wedding. I was crying at the thought of her in that wedding dress and that makeup I never see her wore.
 There are few people in my life I would give it all to be present on the best day of their lifes. Mostly, wedding days are the happiest for ladies . To a layman, those people are friends but to me they are family. We share the best and worst moments, few secrets but plenty experience. You add to their burden when you share secrets if you have one. 

Love is light. It cleanses your soul and makes you feel right. It exposes your self worth and increase your belief. When you love, you do not worry because there is trust. Even when the situation threatens to take your life, you hope.

 Hope; to some people is a sign of weakness but that is what gives us the ability to fight and makes us human. That is who we are and which eventually makes us win. You fight to have the people you love in your life. You want them become a better person. You share the light with them.  Trust comes with love. You cannot trust whom you do not love or love who you do not trust. That love is fake. That is why love is never in a hurry because it is going no where. It comes to stay in form of light. If you miss it, you invite darkness in to your life. Loving is more than a physical phenomenon . It is spiritual because it comes from within.

 There are exceptional cases so I heard,  where love flourish with sex. Love can bring about good sex but good sex may not bring about love. Where there is love, there is light, hopes and fulfilment of dreams.
 "Lovers are winners, it takes lots of risk and courage to be a winner". - Ganiyah Bint Khalid

This world would be a better place if we truly say how we feel without deceit. If we learn to look beyond emotion when it comes to love. Emotion can destroy but love does not. Love does not seek its' gain but rather invest. 

The funny thing about this love is that you found it not available when  you are expected to voice it or show it. It becomes something that is hardly available for those who deserve it but readily available to those who do not.  To some fake people, it was easy for me to say and be there for them but to the real deal I find it so hard until an inertia happens. 

Love is very hard to profess when you are truly with someone you love. Good sex does not guarantee love but love can guarantee good sex. Love does not hurt because it does not have reasons to. It focus more on what the universe has in store and pursue that. Love begets love. Only those who are truly worth it deserves it. Be patient and wait till someone proofs he deserves you. That it can only be him and no one else. Someone who will show you to the world that you belong to him.  

Trust goes with love while lust is to lies. Choose love no matter how hard it is to find. There you find everlasting joy and peace. Love is not changing who you are but accepting who you are to build a better version of you. It is all that matters.